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Wednesday 13 April 2022

RIP Shelley

Instead of the usual Wednesday signs meme, I'm posting a tribute to our lovely Shelley who we had to put to sleep yesterday 12th April at the age of 15 1/2 years.

Shelley :  17 September 2007 - 12 April 2022

Shelley our tortoiseshell, along with 7 other kittens came into our lives on the 17th September 2007, when "Mommy" and "Baby" gave birth to 4 kittens each, just outside my son's bedroom window. 
The mothers weren't really our cats, they had pink collars, were well fed, but used to came around to our house just after we moved in. 
I would put little notes on their collars to find out who they belonged to but nobody ever owned up to them. The house had been empty for a while, as the previous owner had died, so they couldn't have belonged to the old owner. 

They were friendly and whenever the patio door was open they would just wander indoors and sit on the sofas. Eventually they just moved in

Just a couple of weeks before they gave birth did I notice they were pregnant when I noticed they were getting a bit fat .

"Mommy" with all 8 kittens around her. 

We adopted out all but 3 of the 8 babies through an organization called "Safe - Saving animals from euthanasia" - my son Michael wanted Fluffy, and the other two girls Shelley and Twiggy sadly just didn't get adopted as they were the "ugliest" little kittens.  Mommy and Baby have sadly also passed away in March 2014 and February 2015, and Fluffy in March 2021.


Twiggy, Shelley and Fluffy

Shelley or "Fatty" as we would sometimes call her because she was quite an overweight cat, having reached 7,880 kg (17,37lb) at one stage, and was on a vet prescribed diet in 2017, with Fluffy and Twiggy as well.

In the morning, she was always the first one to wake me up if it was past the regular feeding time, putting out her nails and gently scratching my arm while meowing loudly. It never failed to make me spring out of bed!

She loved to eat, gobbling up the other's foods if they left any behind, and even became an expert at opening the automated plates and then having an extra meals !


A model cat will fit anywhere


She was always the more reserved cat, and a bit of a loner, although at one stage Twiggy and her were good friends.







Her favourite spot was by the window sill of my bedroom window.
 

Even in the last month of her life, she would sometimes go and have a snooze there.


She was very close to Jose and when he was sitting watching TV at night she would either sit on his lap or by the side of the armchair and get some cuddles. Sometimes he would drop his arm to the side and she would rub her head backwards and forwards, which was so funny. She loved being brushed and whenever Jose was in the garden she would miaw constantly and he knew she wanted to be brushed.


Getting some cuddles from Jose

Getting some brushing love the day she came from her ultrasound

Sadly in March I noticed that Shelley had suddenly lost a bit of weight. It had been hot and at first I put it down to the heat and that they weren't eating as much, but Twiggy didn't appear to have lost weight.  I took her to the vet on the 10th March and a urine and blood test just showed an infection - but not a bladder or kidney infection. She recommended I take her for an ultrasound.

The radiologist reported a very large mass surrounding her internal organs and apart from suggesting chemotherapy (which I couldn't put a cat through it), he said the prognosis wasn't good. 

She would eat very tiny meals 5 or 6 times a day, in fact whenever she came into the kitchen I would feed her. I bought animal mince, soft food in pouches, gave her chicken pieces, etc, etc, but one day she would eat something, the next day she didn't want that, and I would offer something else... 

Sometimes it felt as if she was getting better, but in fact she was losing weight. So when on Monday she just didn't want to eat at all, and then on Tuesday again, I called the vet to book our "farewell appointment".

her last photo at home 12 April 2022

At the vet in her last minutes

At the vet she was surrounded by me, Jose and our son Michael who also wanted to be present in Shelley's last minutes.


39 comments:

  1. How terribly sad and I really feel for you. They leave their mark on your heart, for sure. So no more cats now?

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    1. Thanks Andrew. We still have Twiggy, who suffers from arthritis.

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  2. Oh Sami, how sad. A truly loving tribute to her, though. You have certainly given her a fitting tribute. Such loving photos of a truly trying time for you. My heart goes out to you and Jose, dear.

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    1. Thank you Elizabeth. She was a sweet cat, we will miss her.

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  3. Oh how sorry I am for you guys. It's a roommate you lose and that's sad. She has had a beautiful life with you

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    1. Thank you Bertie. We certainly gave her a good life.

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  4. That's so sad, she was a lovely cat

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  5. Dearest Sami,
    It is hard to lose a family member and constant companion like Shelley has been for more than 15 years.
    That is similar to our Barty's life of 16.5 years.https://mariettesbacktobasics.blogspot.com/2020/11/rip-sweet-barty-boy.html
    But knowing that they were loved and had a home where human Parents and their family cared for them is a good feeling!
    So many pets sadly never get to know that part.
    We both are lucky for having a veterinarian, willing to come to our home for letting them sleep in. She only has to drive around the corner as we live very close to her clinic.
    Barty peacefully slept in while on my lap and he knew it was his time.
    Shelley no doubt knew too it was her time to say goodbye...
    They remain in our hearts forever and the photos tell a story of LOVE.
    Big hugs,
    Mariette

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    1. Thank you Mariette. Our pets certainly were lucky to have "parents" like us. They are always in our hearts xxx

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  6. Always sad to lose a good compagnon and friend that you know from birth on.I wish you strength for the coming days and hug every cat you meet extra heartily.

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    1. Thank you SC. We both like cats. Twiggy is getting some extra love now.

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  7. A nice tribute and so recognizable, helas I went several times through the same goodbyes. They are such a sweet part of our lives but not for ever helas.. so sad to loose them.

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    1. Thanks Marianne. A part of life, but very sad for sure.

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  8. Kindness to animals is a wonderful virtue, Sami.

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  9. Oh, Sami. That's so hard. The high cost of love is letting go. My vet once said that knowing when to say goodbye is one of the greatest gifts we can give our pet -- and one of the hardest. I send many wishes for your peace and healing and I'm so very glad you shared her story here with all these wonderful photos.

    Shelley was so beautiful. If the people who rejected her as a kitten could have seen her later, they would be shocked. Fabulous markings.

    Sending love and wishes for peace and healing to you and Jose. Your home will feel different for a while. I'm so sorry.

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    1. Thanks for your lovely words Jeanie. We still have Twiggy, but I find myself looking for Shelley at feeding times.

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  10. Big healing hugs, Sami. I know this horrible pain. ♥

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    1. Thank you Sandee, it's difficult toose our "pet" babies. They have such short lives.

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  11. So sad. I am tearing up for you. Sending good thoughts your way, Sami.

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  12. I'm very sorry. You gave her a good home, and she was loved.

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    1. She sure had a lot of love and a good life. Thanks William

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  13. Perder um destes amigos especiais é sempre muito complicado.
    Páscoa Feliz

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    1. Sim triste, pois estava estava connosco há tanto tempo. Boa Páscoa Pedro.

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  14. Comovente! É sempre um grande desgosto...
    Porém, é assim a vida... Há que partir um dia...
    Dias tranquilos...
    ~~~~~~~~~~

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    1. Obrigada Majo. Pois o ciclo da vida é assim, ninguém fica para sempre, mas sempre triste ver um familiar ou amigo patudo partir.

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  15. She was a great car happy Easter from Poland

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    1. Thank you Gosia. Happy Easter to you too.

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  16. So sad to read this, but a lovely tribute.
    RIP Shelley.

    All the best Jan

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  17. So, so sad. It is never easy to put them to sleep and to bid farewell. I remember crying all the way home after one of our pet dog was put to sleep.

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    1. It was very sad, and sometimes when I think of her I still tear up. Thanks Nancy

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